Saturday, 25 January 2014

Is he Cheating on Me?

Is he cheating on me? Answering this question requires a bit more effort than reading the latest top ten cheating signs.
The reason lots of people fail to know whether someone is cheating on them or not is that they take these exact signs without considering the other parameters involved.
For example, one of the famous signs for cheating is reoccurring mood swings in the cheater’s mood and While this can be a sign of cheating still it can result from other problems like excessive stress.
That’s why the 1+1= 2 approach cant be used in knowing whether someone is cheating or not, but instead, the full picture should be taken into consideration in order not to destroy your relationship by mistake.
In this article I have included lots of signs that can tell you whether someone is cheating or not, however, with most of the signs I have included other possible causes other than cheating that might have resulted in these signs.
If you allowed yourself to see the big picture you won’t be fooled by false signs and you will easily know whether someone is cheating on you or not. The use of the Word He in this article doesn’t mean that this article is written for females only but it can be used for both; just replace the word "he" with a "she" if you are a male.

Signs of Emotional Cheating

If lots of these signs were found then there is a big possibility that your partner is cheating on you. Be wise and look for the full picture else you will be risking your relationship.
  • Sudden Interest in improving his Appearance: One of the strongest signs of cheating is a sudden interest in improving ones looks & appearance. If he suddenly started exercising, started trying new hair styles or changed his diet then he may be cheating on you. But take care; this may also happen if he received bad criticism about his looks lately. Also if someone has self image problems then something happened which reminded him of this problem then he may take such actions. (see the article i dont like the way i look for more information about self image problems)
  • Changing Passwords: Although its not recommended some partners share their mail passwords. When someone starts cheating he will usually make sudden changes to these passwords to prevent his partner from finding out that he is cheating. This may also happen if he wants to hide any other information from you so its not a 100% guarantee that he is cheating on you.
  • Lying Often: This is the strongest sign of cheating. I know you may be asking yourself, “how can I know if he is lying?” and here is the answer, the following article contains more than 15 powerful signs that can help you know if someone is lying. The signs are based on techniques from NLP,body language & other sciences. See how to know if someone is lying to you. When it comes to lying there might not be any other explanations other than he is cheating on you especially if he was lying about things related to his continues absence
  • Unhappy marriage: Unhappy marriage is not a sign of cheating but it’s the optimal condition that allows the growth of the cheating seed. As a method of compensation your partner may cheat on you just to compensate for this unhappy relationship
  • Sudden Mood changes: The cheater's mood will swing often. He will always feel irritable and he may start to lose his temper faster. This happens because of his suppressed feelings of guilt. (see suppressed emotions for more information). This could also happen as a result offrustration, stress & work problems. So again, this sign can be a sign of cheating or a sign of another problem that is not related to cheating
  • Sudden Change In Habits: Unusual phone activity, phone calls at the middle of the night, unusual changes in habits and unusual change in schedules are of the common signs of cheating. If nothing else was causing these changes then there is a possibility that your partner is cheating on you
  • He/She appears to be Confused: If someone is cheating on but still has emotions for you then he will always seem confused and worried all the time.
  • Avoidance Avoiding introducing you to her, encouraging you to go out of town, being very happy the day you are traveling and avoiding accompanying you to social events are all signs of cheating. All of these actions are the result of wanting you to be away while he cheats on you and not wanting you to catch him with her.
  • Love signals: I have wrote a guide before than can tell you whether someone is in love with you or not. If you found that he is doing these same signs with someone else then there is a great possibility that he is cheating on you. See how to know of someone loves you
  • Sudden Change in Work schedule: when suddenly the person starts complaining about excessive amounts of work, when he starts to work for longer hours and when he starts to work on holidays then it may be an indication that he is cheating on you. In this case the person is just using his workload as an excuse to leave home or to come home late. If he is a type A personality then you shouldn't worry about it but if the person hates his work and still spends the whole day there then it’s a warning sign. .
  • Car seat!! If you found that the car seat was moved then this means that someone else was riding beside him in the car, however, this still may be one of his friends. Again taking the full picture into consideration can help you avoid incorrect judgment
  • Changing his Spending Habits Saving more and buying you more gifts might be signs of cheating especially if he didn’t use to buy you gifts before. Saving can be an indication that he is buying gifts for someone else. Take care, he may also be saving because he is worried about his financial security.
  • I Love you As a method of deception a person may start to say I love you more often just to show you that is not cheating on you. It’s like when you ask a terrified kid, “are you afraid?” And he replies, “I never become afraid.” Knowing whether this is a sign of cheating or not depends on his previous habits, if he never used to tell you I love then suddenly he started saying it often then there may be a possibility of cheating.
  • How to tell if he is Cheating on you

    From the previous paragraphs we can conclude that sticking to the following guidelines will make cheating detection much more accurate:
    1)Look at the full picture and find the real reasons for the change in his habits
    2)Look for changes in habits and not for weird habits. what we care about is the change
    3)You should at least find five or more signs before you say that he is cheating on you.
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Saturday, 18 January 2014

The Heart Rides On





I love you. I love your eyes. I love your smell. I love your hair. I love your laugh. I love your skin. I love everything inside you. And I'll try to make all the parts that I find, happy.

Because you make me happy. So much.

Wednesday, 15 January 2014

:: PERKARA DIBENCI WANITA ::

:: PERKARA DIBENCI WANITA ::


1. Panas baran
Pantang silap sikit, pasti pelbagai kata-kata kesat dihamburkan. Tidak cukup dengan kata-kata kesat, kadangkala tangan lelaki panas baran ini juga pantas menampar atau mencekik leher kekasih bagi menunjukkan mereka ini kuat dan berkuasa.
Perbuatan lelaki sebegini akan membuatkan wanita benci dan fobia. Bagi sesetengah wanita yang terlalu menyayangi pasangan, mereka terpaksa berendam air mata dan membiarkan hidup menderita. Lama kelamaan wanita ini akan hidup dalam keadaan tertekan dan boleh menyebabkan kemurungan.

2. Mengongkong
Segala gerak-geri kekasih dikawal. Hendak keluar berhibur dengan teman-teman pun tidak boleh. Sampaikan dari segi berpakaian pun perlu mengikut segala yang diinginkan mereka. Tetapi, mereka akan melenting pula sekiranya aktiviti-aktiviti mereka disoal siasat oleh kekasih mereka. Mulalah dituduh psiko dan queen control.

3. Ego
Ini adalah perbuatan yang paling ketara bagi kaum lelaki. Apabila berlaku pergaduhan, wanita selalu dipersalahkan. Kadangkala, marahnya sudah hilang tetapi ego punya pasal sanggup mendiamkan diri tidak menelefon kekasih semata-mata ingin dipujuk. Ada sesetengah lelaki pula, kerana terlalu ego sanggup menunggu wanita mengajak keluar dahulu daripada mereka sendiri mengajaknya. Tidak salah mempamerkan ego, tetapi biarlah kena pada tempatnya.

4. Suka ‘cuci mata’
Kebanyakan lelaki sukar untuk mengawal mata mereka (mata keranjang). Walaupun sudah dikurniakan teman wanita yang cantik, tetapi masih lagi ingin memandang wanita lain. Pandang sekali sudahlah. Ini tidak. Kadangkala, sampai terpusing kepala lelaki mata keranjang ini memandang wanita lain.

5. Main kayu tiga
Ini adalah perkara yang paling dibenci oleh setiap wanita. Pantang digoda dengan wanita lain, terus hanyut. Ada juga lelaki yang pantang melihat perempuan cantik, pasti dijadikan senarai ‘teman tapi mesra’. Ada juga yang sanggup keluar dengan wanita lain walaupun sudah mempunyai kekasih.

6. Tidak sensitif perasaan wanita
Lelaki kadangkala suka bertindak sambil lewa dan kurang memberikan perhatian kepada kekasihnya, lebih-lebih lagi apabila melibatkan perasaan wanita. Tetapi jika bersangkut paut mengenai diri sendiri, keluarga dan kawan-kawan, mereka begitu memahami dan mengambil berat.
Sebenarnya, wanita bukanlah terlalu sensitif atau terlalu manja. Cukuplah sekadar teman lelaki menjaga hati mereka dahulu sebelum menjaga hati orang lain, lebih-lebih lagi jika wanita itu bakal menjadi isterinya kelak.

7. Pentingkan kawan-kawan
Sanggup membatalkan temu janji semata-mata ingin menonton bola sepak atau diajak melepak oleh kawan-kawan lelaki. Sesetengah lelaki selalu mementingkan kawan-kawan dalam segala hal.
Kalau ada apa-apa masalah di tempat kerja atau apa urusan sekalipun, mereka yang mementingkan kawan-kawan sanggup mengadu dengan alasan tidak sesuai bercerita dengan kekasih. Wanita akan lebih menyayangi pasangannya jika mereka lebih dihargai.

8. Tidak tahu menghargai
Sukar untuk bertemu lelaki yang tahu menghargai perasaan atau pun perbuatan kekasihnya. Ada pula yang berpura-pura tidak mengambil tahu walaupun menyedarinya. Seboleh-bolehnya, lelaki mahu si dia terang-terangan menunjukkan sikap menghargai mereka. Kalau setakat sikit-sikit atau sekadar kiasan, alamatnya mereka akan berpura-pura tidak menyedarinya. Apa salahnya sekali-sekala, tunjukkan sikap menghargai teman wanita terhadap apa yang cuba dilakukannya untuk anda seperti memberi hadiah kecil. Setidak-tidaknya, ucapkanlah terima kasih setiap kali dia cuba berbuat sesuatu untuk anda.

9. Meninggikan suara
Tahulah mereka dikurniakan suara yang ‘macho’ tetapi kalau nak meninggikan suara sekadar menunjukkan ego, tak eloklah. Ini antara kelemahan lelaki kerana mereka mudah meninggikan suara walaupun pasangannya tidak bersalah.

10. Penipu
Masalah yang ketara apabila lelaki suka menipu ataupun memberikan alasan yang tidak munasabah. Ada lelaki sanggup mungkir janji dan memberi pelbagai alasan seperti mempunyai masalah yang tidak dapat dielakkan, padahal sebenarnya mereka enggan mengotakan janji mereka sendiri. Ada juga yang sudah berpunya tetapi mengaku solo. Sifat menipu dan suka berdolak-dalih ini, lama kelamaan akan membuatkan wanita menjauhi anda.

p/s : tidak semua betol , tapi kebanyakkan nye cm nie perempuan tak suka pada lelaki . manusia nie tak semuanya sempurna , tetapi kita boley jadi usaha yang terbaik untuk pasangan kita bukan ?